[Barry winces slightly when Hal clarifies his question in rigid terms, because yeah, he was going to say "whatever you want to do" and leave it up to his friend. Hal knows him too well. As he should, probably, since they're going to get married, and already have a child together, and have spent this many years together...]

Would you be mad if I said I thought maybe a small wedding would be nice? Just something for family and close friends, nothing big. [That's still... several people, but still. It'd be nothing like the scale Dinah and Ollie's wedding reached.]